Get The Girl
Dating The High-Value Woman
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Gents, there are some things to keep in mind when you’re trying to date a high-value woman. One is that she may not fall into the category of “super easygoing.” Although she may think she’s really easygoing, don’t confuse that with “a joy to be around.” Let’s call a spade a spade here: a high-value woman is not necessarily easy to date. And “easy to date” is not always a positive thing. If a relationship is too easy, that’s probably because someone stopped putting any effort into it. (When your relationship has become too easy, it’s wise to consider that something might be missing.) Nor is the high-value woman complicated. She may be complex, intriguing, and mystifying, but she’s not easy and she’s not complicated. So what is she, then? You just have to understand what she values. When high-value women talk about wanting relationships that are “easy,” that means they know what they value and they think you can provide that value. But to you, she’s not “easy” because you’re not really sure what she needs from you as a partner. Does she need you to be the breadwinner? Does she need you to provide emotional stability? Does she need you to make all of the decisions in the house? Does she need you to make sure that everything is fixed properly if something breaks? Does she need you to take care of the bills? The simple answer to all of those questions is probably “No.” The high-value woman knows how to manage without you. She can pay her bills and she can fix things on her own. Or if she can’t fix things, then she knows who to call if something breaks. It’s called outsourcing. The high-value woman can take care of herself, and she is financially and emotionally stable (for the most part, anyway). So why does a high-value woman want to be in a relationship? If she can take care of all of those things on her own, then what value could a man possibly bring to her life? The same value that friendships bring; the same value that family brings; the same value that having her own family could bring. She wants companionship. She wants a partner in life to share the good and the bad with. Someone she can support and who can support her. A partner to have life adventures with and explore the greater things in life with. And of course someone to have amazing sex with. Let’s not forget about the amazing sex!
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Are you ready for the relationship of your dreams where you feel supported, loved, and respected? It may sound like fiction, but it’s not. In Get the Girl, author Andrea LaRosa offers a guide to better understanding the woman you want to date or the woman you want to be. Women are often described as “strong and independent,” yet so few really know what that means. LaRosa chronicles her personal journey and shares top-notch secrets to having a successful, romantic relationship. She tells how relationships are seductively complex and require a balance of masculine and feminine energy, while needing healthy boundaries, effective communication, and fun. She discusses the traits of high-value women, identifies the challenges in dating them, and shows how to support one. Get the Girl speaks to both men looking to date a high-value woman and high-value women looking to fall in love. It communicates the importance of being true to yourself, authentic, and empathic.
About the Author
Andrea LaRosa is the founder of Date Smarter, a collection of services including; coaching, podcasting, courses, workshops, and programs designed to assist people in improving their relationships. She helps men and women around the world to find love. Having lived abroad and experienced different cultures, Andrea returned to the States ready to share her knowledge and insight. She holds an MFA in Creative Writing, an MA in Script Writing, and graduated with honors from Arizona State University with a BA in Liberal Arts. She is certified in Life Coaching, Relationship Coaching, and NLP.