The 50 Why's about Men
Understanding Men in Relationships
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How do you know whether a guy is serious about you or not?
The idea of finding a man who is serious about you seems almost unreal these days, but there are a few things you can keep in mind if you’re trying to figure out if he’s worth fighting for. The three most important things to keep in mind are emotional stability, flexibility, and availability. How does he handle your emotions? Does he genuinely care or does he just brush you off? Next, how flexible is he to changing plans? Does everything have to be his way or does he consider what you want as well? Finally, is he available for you when you need him to be or just when he’s free and has no plans with anyone else? Basically, his actions will prove if he’s serious about you.
Another thing to see would be if he introduces you to his family and friends. Does he involve you in his life and does he want to be involved in your life? Does he respect you? The first thing in a relationship is to see whether the person respects you. If there is no respect, then he will not commit.
In today’s day and age, most people communicate through text so that may be another indicator of his intentions toward you. Are his messages thoughtful or do they just seem repetitive? If he puts no thought into his primary method of communication, this is a sign that he’s brushing you off, rather than seeing you as a serious partner.
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Relationships are the most important but least understood aspects of our lives. While searching for a healthy relationship with the opposite sex, we often end up being hurt and then initiating a new relationship without knowing what really happened with the last one.
In a collection of 50 questions, Dr. Saima Sandhu, a seasoned professional counselor, provides insight into the intricacies of how and why men behave in certain ways when they are in a relationship. While providing an opportunity for women to better understand men and then utilize that knowledge to find lasting love, Dr. Saima answers the most frequent questions asked by females about men and relationships throughout her career that include:
How do I know if a guy is serious about me or not?
How do I get a guy to fall in love with me?
How does a guy’s mind work when they are in a relationship?
What is a healthy relationship?
What does it mean to nurture a relationship?
The 50 Whys about Men answers the most common questions women have about men while searching for a healthy relationship and lasting love.
About the Author
Saima Sandhu LPC, MA, MS, PhD is a licensed professional counselor with many years of experience in private practice. She holds bachelor’s and master’s degrees in genetics, a second master’s degree in computer science, and a PhD in counseling. Today, she works for a nonprofit, enjoys speaking about mental health topics, hosts a YouTube channel, and works globally with all age groups.