The Indebted Beneficiary of Countless Second Chances

In The Indebted Beneficiary of Numerous Second Chances you will find inspirational heart felt stories about a once codependent Swazi twin, wife and mother of three who, as a consequence of a series of past failures and mounting responsibilities was compelled to do something remarkable... After she decided that enough was enough, she stopped limiting herself and made a life-changing shift by venturing into a bigger whole new world…

We are all aware that you cannot just up and leave. There's so much more to it than just geographical immobility and overcoming obstacles associated with being a single mother who can't just uproot your children and go wondering with them. Additionally, prevailing over all the initial hurdles and finally breaking away didn't mean she was prepared for an even greater degree of traumatic and horrific events that followed, tempting and driving her to reverse her decision and resort to going back to her country as this was much easier than the hardships and uncertainties. It made a lot of sense to retract as it became a do or die situation because her children were concurrently going through different kinds of abuse, trials and tribulations that children were not supposed to go through. However, she somehow gained fortitude and persevered, turning a deaf ear to negativity while going through hell. Thank God shedidn't stop even after the UK road led her to a dead end; and even when she hit a wall after taking the consecutive path that led her to the US… Other than aborting her plan, she decided to become a disoriented pilgrim making a lot of mistakes but she didn’t stop moving even though she was second guessing and sometimes reversing a lot of her decisions along the way to implement fresh ones. Indeed, she didn't know what she was doing most of the time and was not sure of the direction she was supposed to take…

Her final struggle to be accepted in Canada with her children didn't mean her challenges were over even after getting approval for permanent residency. Nevertheless, when all was said and done, God kept giving her what she called undeserved second chances… He blessed those broken roads that led her to her destiny and to the joy of finding her husband Sucre. However, finding her spouse was not just a breeze. After a struggle and threats of post traumatic relationship disorder, and then having close calls to committing to the wrong people, she thought after finally meeting the one everything was going to be a bed of roses. But interracial marriages and blending families even in later in life unions has its own dynamics as some adult children view their parent's new spouse with suspicion and outright dislike while also struggling with acceptance and concerns about loyalties. Even though from experience, she can't insist on people liking each other, how does she narrate about respect, kindness, and the kind of love that constrains you to value and care more about your spouse's happiness and comfort than your own sometimes?